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丹增和帕尔吉特

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～桑噶尔高原的女儿们～（上）

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桑噶尔高原

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根植在冰雪覆盖的

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喜马拉雅山腹上的散落村寨

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这里是西藏佛教

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虔诚信徒们的安居之所

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噶夏寺（海拔3800米）

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帕\N尔\N吉\N特

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想出家？

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你妈也赞成？

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老爸的话就没人听吗

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帕\N尔\N吉\N特\N的\N母\N亲

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这不是在商量着吗

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出家不也挺好的吗

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这孩子要不在家

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帕\N尔\N吉\N特\N的\N父\N亲

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家里的活儿谁来干

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帕尔吉特想把一生奉献宗教

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这也是很体面的事儿啊

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不管老爸怎么说我都要出家

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这孩子一直都想出家

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天天唠叨这事

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到底要我怎么办啊

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这孩子是诚心诚意的

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你就成全了她吧

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绝对不允许

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干嘛要生这么大的气呢

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这孩子已经铁了心了

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干吗要这样坚决反对呢

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那是她自己的人生嘛

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结婚不一定就能幸福

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这家怎么办呢

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我也是不舍得啊

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可结了婚的有的也不幸福啊

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不是吗

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要生儿育女

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丈夫不好的话更要操心了

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出家为尼就能幸福了

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随时都能照看我们

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帕尔吉特是我们的独生女儿

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她一定得结婚

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我妈也反对孙女出家

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临死前还叮嘱我说

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别让她出家

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我发过誓遵守诺言

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山丘上的寺院中

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住着帕尔吉特最贴心的

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婶婶朵库杰

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帕尔吉特常常跑到婶婶处

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学习祈祷和诵经

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要冻死了

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这么大的雪还来

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出什么事了

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手都冻僵了

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帕\N尔\N吉\N特\N的\N叔\N母\N \N朵\N库\N杰

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好大雪 冻死了

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又和老爸吵架了？

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他还是不让我出家

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今天又大光其火

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没事儿

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明天我去说服他

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就算他生气也不能服输喔

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我会帮你出家的

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怎么办才好呢

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不能轻易放弃

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来把帽子戴上

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好大雪呀

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下得挺大的

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别担心

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头发一剃就是尼僧了

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幸福就在眼前喔

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气消啦？

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海拔三千米以上的

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桑噶尔高原

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冬季长达九个月

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气温可达零下三十度

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与外部的往来也告断绝

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为抵抗严寒

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饲养家畜

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村民们向来齐心协力

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与严酷的自然搏斗

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古老的村规

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人人都必须恪守

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但父女之间的隔阂

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依然无法消解

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好牧草啊

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很平时一样的

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不补充体力不行

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给公的也喂一点

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已经喂过了

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母的就要生了

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我不想结婚

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丈夫要是个坏人怎么办

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搞不好酗酒、施暴还要吵架

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出家比结婚好多了

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能一生幸福

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对女儿的愿望

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置若罔闻的父亲

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但对高僧的话

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也得侧耳倾听

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噶夏寺的僧侣丹勒

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从前从西藏

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徒步跨越山脉

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来到此地

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丹\N\N勒

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一说想出家

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老爸就生气

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但我妈跟我说

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你愿怎样就怎样

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一定能得到幸福的

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不能因为选择了宗教的道路

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就把父母抛在一边

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我会一直关心双亲的

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你拥有纯净的心灵

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一定能度过幸福的一生

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但绝不可行罪孽之事

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不撒谎 不伤人

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对出家要心怀欢喜

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不违背自己的良心

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走自己所相信的道路

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不过撇下父母而去

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我也有些难过

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你还有哥哥吧

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要走自己的人生路

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自己的道路自己来决定

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与菩萨面对面

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答案自会油然而生

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僧侣丹勒令她顿开茅舍

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帕尔吉特的亲友

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丹增

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两人从小就形影不离

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美丽的丹增姑娘

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是小伙子们的偶像

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自己的人生正要迎来巨变

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而她对此还一无所知

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丹增的母亲

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昨天拿巴尔家派人

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送来了羌酒

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是来求婚的

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我和你爸商量后

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决定收下了

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这是为了你的将来

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羌酒都已喝了

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就不能再反悔了

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这是为了你好

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你该懂的吧

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这么快就和朋友家人分别

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我不要

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随时都可以见面的啊

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常回娘家来就好了嘛

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我不愿和家人分开

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我不想去

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好好听我们的话

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一定会过上幸福生活

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要是不听家人忠告的话

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就没人会来帮你了

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丹增知道自己的命运已定

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已无法逆转

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女人受难是命中注定

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父母喝了羌酒

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同意了婚事

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我不出嫁就不行了

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不可以拒绝的

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女婿家的使者向新娘家

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献上酥油茶、青稞酒和礼金

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代代相传的订婚仪式

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种种举止和礼节

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从遥远的过去

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一成不变地重复至今

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桑噶尔的习俗

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就是这样被保存下来的

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离家而去的女子的悲伤

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也同样古今皆然

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为了女儿好我们才决定的

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但那孩子能不能幸福

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我也不知道

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现在还不能肯定

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毕竟是嫁到陌生人家去

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到底能不能幸福

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没办法知道

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帕尔吉特

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丹  增

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随心所欲的孩提时代

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已经结束了

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今后将面对的是新的世界

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你要自己决定

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我也想过与其结婚

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还不如出家

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可是父母答应订婚了

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别哭

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有我在呢

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我们从前一直形影不离的

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可是你要出家了

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我也要出嫁了

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今后各走各的路了

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女人命中注定

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要和家人朋友分别的

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别哭啦 打起精神

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欢歌和祝酒的夜晚

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两家的男子欢聚一堂

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在歌声中举行贺仪

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新郎家依据星相术

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来决定马队把丹增带走的日子

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噶夏的青年们

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在流行歌曲声中跳舞

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此时此刻

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任何梦想似乎都能如愿以偿

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但在屋外

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却是冰天雪地

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寒风在山谷间呼啸而过

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帕尔吉特的婶婶朵库杰

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也是为了逃避婚姻

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克服种种困难

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削发为尼的人之一

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修行的间隙

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靠帮人做家务和务农

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维持生活

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虽然身无分文

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但朵库杰拥有了自由

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年轻女孩子会轻易地说要出家

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但在充满信心地这样宣布后

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很多人过后打消了这个念头

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本要出家的女孩子

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突然说要结婚

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就回家去了

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而另一方面

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也有人从小就出家

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在寺里度过一辈子

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各种情况的都有

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人就是形形色色的嘛

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出家是这个村寨的女性

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获得自由的唯一途径

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也是逃避失恋痛苦的手段

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曾经恋爱过一次

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互相都很喜欢

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有一天他跟我说

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父母要他和其他女人结婚

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他说想和他在一起的话

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现在就一起逃走

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我头一次那样痛哭

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00:26:15,626 --> 00:26:18,029
不过 都过去了

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00:26:30,102 --> 00:26:33,048
我说我想出家

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00:26:33,260 --> 00:26:36,907
他哭了

242
00:26:37,523 --> 00:26:40,320
他说你这人太好了

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00:26:40,642 --> 00:26:44,989
愿望一定会实现

244
00:26:45,590 --> 00:26:49,521
事情已经过去两三年了

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00:26:49,650 --> 00:26:52,278
最近和他久别重逢

246
00:26:52,832 --> 00:26:56,543
他问我真的想出家吗

247
00:26:56,961 --> 00:26:58,858
我说是的

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00:26:59,077 --> 00:27:00,492
可他不信

249
00:27:00,729 --> 00:27:03,440
我就说我是真的铁了心了

250
00:27:31,335 --> 00:27:34,128
请问星相师

251
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:39,329
结婚仪式选哪个吉日好

252
00:27:39,647 --> 00:27:42,868
帮我查查看

253
00:27:50,049 --> 00:27:52,100
新娘22岁吧

254
00:27:55,244 --> 00:28:01,683
要马队在12月3日到新娘家

255
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:12,055
然后在12月4日

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00:28:12,278 --> 00:28:14,980
把新娘带走

257
00:28:22,073 --> 00:28:25,957
历书上是这样说的

258
00:28:32,906 --> 00:28:34,315
12月3日

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00:28:34,617 --> 00:28:37,856
身着华丽衣裳的迎亲马队

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00:28:37,999 --> 00:28:39,199
前往新娘家

261
00:28:40,449 --> 00:28:42,286
他们在完成带走丹增

262
00:28:42,638 --> 00:28:44,916
送至新居的任务之前

263
00:28:45,244 --> 00:28:47,903
不允许睡眠

264
00:29:08,243 --> 00:29:09,588
在村里

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00:29:09,821 --> 00:29:13,289
丹增的母亲在为婚礼做准备

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00:29:14,814 --> 00:29:16,483
为表示一家的繁荣

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00:29:16,772 --> 00:29:18,737
准备了一百公斤的青稞

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00:29:18,996 --> 00:29:20,406
发酵三天

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00:29:20,693 --> 00:29:22,700
酿成羌酒

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00:29:30,216 --> 00:29:33,299
我是在18岁上结的婚

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当时根本没想过要结婚

272
00:29:38,093 --> 00:29:44,530
小时候我也想去出家

273
00:29:44,867 --> 00:29:51,776
要不就在自己家里生活下去

274
00:30:05,123 --> 00:30:07,283
刚嫁过来的时候

275
00:30:07,536 --> 00:30:12,257
很讨厌这个家

276
00:30:12,455 --> 00:30:15,552
丹增生下来后我就想

277
00:30:15,891 --> 00:30:21,526
夫妻互相不恩爱不行

278
00:30:21,985 --> 00:30:25,947
后来又生了几个孩子

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00:30:26,159 --> 00:30:27,718
边养育孩子

280
00:30:27,990 --> 00:30:30,577
边操持家务和农活

281
00:30:30,823 --> 00:30:33,077
还要照顾丈夫

282
00:30:33,216 --> 00:30:35,299
我想只要齐心协力

283
00:30:35,548 --> 00:30:37,254
就总会有办法

284
00:30:37,620 --> 00:30:41,206
于是就两人一起埋头苦干

285
00:31:08,728 --> 00:31:10,234
为每一个村民

286
00:31:10,452 --> 00:31:12,524
准备两个面饼

287
00:31:13,109 --> 00:31:16,434
包括小孩子和出外人的份儿

288
00:31:17,633 --> 00:31:19,016
让大家大啖之余

288
00:31:19,633 --> 00:31:22,016
互相吐露衷肠

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00:31:26,086 --> 00:31:30,034
我也是受父母之命结婚的

290
00:31:30,344 --> 00:31:35,958
订婚时我说了不愿意

291
00:31:36,499 --> 00:31:39,123
可是没有用

292
00:31:40,143 --> 00:31:43,179
结果就嫁到那户人家

293
00:31:43,541 --> 00:31:45,374
十五年前的事了

294
00:31:46,445 --> 00:31:49,367
虽然和丈夫从小就认识

295
00:31:49,596 --> 00:31:52,218
但我还是不太情愿

296
00:31:54,046 --> 00:31:56,630
不过最后还是从命了

297
00:32:00,941 --> 00:32:04,001
在迎亲马队现身雪原之前

298
00:32:04,272 --> 00:32:07,301
必须准备好三千张面饼

299
00:34:18,260 --> 00:34:19,303
羊呢？

300
00:34:19,593 --> 00:34:21,131
有了

301
00:34:23,479 --> 00:34:25,170
六匹吗

302
00:34:28,036 --> 00:34:30,535
聘礼获得全体同意之后

303
00:34:30,804 --> 00:34:32,900
便在婚礼证明上签字

304
00:34:34,768 --> 00:34:38,390
并撕裂白布分送各人

305
00:35:46,490 --> 00:35:49,665
围着新娘展开热闹的竞争

306
00:35:59,514 --> 00:36:02,044
女子们装出保护新娘的样子

307
00:36:02,379 --> 00:36:03,881
想方设法

307
00:36:04,009 --> 00:36:06,681
让新郎家的使者多付些钱

308
00:37:14,412 --> 00:37:16,272
迎亲马队途经的村寨

309
00:37:16,488 --> 00:37:19,513
都要举行名为捧巴的仪式

310
00:37:20,286 --> 00:37:21,814
迎亲的使者们

311
00:37:22,126 --> 00:37:23,733
满怀谢意地歌唱

312
00:37:23,949 --> 00:37:25,674
接受村民的饮食招待

313
00:37:25,898 --> 00:37:28,213
支付现金作为回报

314
00:37:29,454 --> 00:37:30,909
这是自古以来的

314
00:37:31,254 --> 00:37:33,909
一种分享财富的方法

315
00:38:37,277 --> 00:38:43,980
不能让女儿一直呆在我们身边

316
00:38:44,327 --> 00:38:46,529
为了她的幸福

317
00:38:46,873 --> 00:38:48,821
必须这样做

318
00:38:49,078 --> 00:38:52,025
她本人却很伤心

319
00:38:53,082 --> 00:38:54,755
对大家来说

320
00:38:55,063 --> 00:38:58,501
今天是一个难过的日子

321
00:38:58,773 --> 00:39:01,009
想到女儿要离开身边

322
00:39:01,240 --> 00:39:04,552
我就心如刀割

323
00:39:59,203 --> 00:40:02,257
女儿嫁出去了

324
00:40:02,550 --> 00:40:05,291
我们当然会去新家看她的

325
00:40:06,384 --> 00:40:09,329
但毕竟要离家而去

326
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,098
心里说不出有多难受

327
00:40:48,666 --> 00:40:52,516
母女之间代代相传的贵重头饰

328
00:40:53,204 --> 00:40:55,029
称为巴珠

329
00:40:56,379 --> 00:40:57,888
丹增的母亲

330
00:40:58,179 --> 00:41:00,950
把母亲传给她的巴珠传给丹增

331
00:41:01,170 --> 00:41:03,281
以示家庭的维系

332
00:41:05,890 --> 00:41:08,696
缝在上面做护身符的绿松石

333
00:41:09,062 --> 00:41:10,928
是新家庭的象征

334
00:41:11,253 --> 00:41:15,687
蕴含着一生幸福的祝愿

335
00:41:24,188 --> 00:41:24,820
迎亲马队

336
00:41:25,221 --> 00:41:28,238
与新娘家的迎客代表碰面

337
00:41:29,190 --> 00:41:33,008
传承了数世纪的对歌开始了

338
00:41:34,097 --> 00:41:36,680
如果不能正确地以歌答问

339
00:41:36,979 --> 00:41:39,100
队伍就不能前行

340
00:42:12,544 --> 00:42:13,891
一行费时数小时

341
00:42:14,372 --> 00:42:18,021
一步一步地靠近丹增家门

342
00:43:47,999 --> 00:43:50,153
另一个仪式也开始了

343
00:43:52,105 --> 00:43:53,892
断腿的假鸟

344
00:43:54,221 --> 00:43:57,263
象征诸神之家的菱形饰物

345
00:43:57,770 --> 00:44:00,392
以及弯弓等纷纷出现

346
00:44:24,316 --> 00:44:26,555
少女们在偷笑

347
00:44:27,141 --> 00:44:30,433
因为正在唱的是生育的歌曲

348
00:45:10,020 --> 00:45:12,379
最后的仪式即将开始

349
00:45:14,466 --> 00:45:17,108
丹增和朋友坐在一起

350
00:45:17,554 --> 00:45:19,970
等待着被带走

351
00:45:24,865 --> 00:45:26,440
迎亲马队的代表

352
00:45:26,635 --> 00:45:30,154
必须找到掩盖在布下的丹增

353
00:45:30,810 --> 00:45:32,892
若能正确指认

354
00:45:33,190 --> 00:45:35,868
新娘便是新郎的人了

355
00:45:43,898 --> 00:45:45,987
女孩子结婚

356
00:45:46,341 --> 00:45:48,785
喜事要持续办三天

357
00:45:49,095 --> 00:45:51,213
开始的一、两月

358
00:45:51,496 --> 00:45:53,761
大伙儿都很高兴

359
00:45:54,050 --> 00:45:56,938
像疼爱自家女儿一样待你

360
00:45:57,235 --> 00:45:58,934
但时间一长

361
00:45:59,199 --> 00:46:00,974
生了孩子以后

362
00:46:01,246 --> 00:46:03,020
丈夫家的人

363
00:46:03,255 --> 00:46:05,621
就会开始和新娘吵架

364
00:46:06,115 --> 00:46:09,826
我就是讨厌这个

365
00:46:10,317 --> 00:46:13,394
婚礼虽然很热闹

366
00:46:13,664 --> 00:46:16,729
但我对结婚没兴趣

367
00:47:58,808 --> 00:48:01,700
被带往遥远村寨的丹增

368
00:48:04,869 --> 00:48:06,465
留下帕尔吉特

369
00:48:06,967 --> 00:48:10,380
面临痛下决断的时刻

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00:48:46,677 --> 00:48:51,280
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